Monday, November 19, 2012

My friend Elias


Two weeks ago I went to Beira to visit and to encourage my friend Elias (or Elijah in English).  In September he was in a terrible car accident in which he fell off his motorbike and then was run over by a car and shortly thereafter became unconscious.  When he woke up in hospital, both he and the doctors were amazed that he had survived especially considering the amount of blood he had lost and the damage to his head.  He couldn't breathe through his nose for two weeks which made eating complicated, and now, more than 6 weeks later, he still has limited circulation on the right side of his face and various physical limitations-mostly affecting his face.  Additionally, since the accident he and his family have also experienced difficulty; his brother was in a motorbike accident on his way to visit Elias in hospital, his niece recently died, he was robbed and therefore short on finances needed for food and missing a phone. Despite all this Elias continually thanks God that he is alive and trusts God, as he knows God alone spared his life.  Watching his faith through suffering has spoken volumes to me.  Truly he embodies Psalm 34:1, “I will extol the LORD at all times, his praise will always be on my lips.”


Elias is a Mozambican man with a vision to build an orphanage to take care of widows and orphans. I first met him in 2009, when I was on the World Race and he was our translator.  That’s when my teammates and I heard his vision and wanted to help him reach that goal. Since then, there has been correspondence and the first house was built in June this year. He wants to build small houses in which one widow and about six children will live. Currently no one lives in the house though, as it lacks furniture and there are still a handful of needs that must be met in order to be up and running. Due to his accident and unfortunate events as well as his very active church involvement, he hasn't been able to focus on the orphanage.

  When I was in Beira with Elias he stressed to me that funding was major obstacle that kept  him from getting things off the ground and running. He has talked to the local government who is willing to assist with food for the orphanage once there is evidence of consistent finances required to take care of kids.  He also wants to get sowing machines for the widows thereby allowing them to make their own money and financially contribute to the homes as well.

 Unfortunately there are several widows and orphans throughout Mozambique who lack the ability to adequately provide for themselves and are reliant on others.   As a result, there is a big need for orphanages here in Mozambique.  I know of a handful of orphanages in various parts of Mozambique, but Elias is the only Mozambican I know of who wants to build an orphanage; every other orphanage I know of was established and is run by Westerners.  There is definitely nothing wrong with foreigners helping, but I think it is special to have a Mozambican who wants to help his own people in this way.  It excites me to see a Mozambican with a passion to help his country and people, as opposed to the victim mentality of we’re suffering and you, rich, foreigner should help.

Elias standing outside the Children's home. 

If you would like to encourage or help Elias, you can email him: eliasdomingosbene@yahoo.com.br    Or if you would like to give go to: http://www.razoo.com/story/Beloveinc?referral_code=share and make sure to indicate it is for Elias. 

In closing, this was one of my most memorable moments in Beira:
“It’s not much further”, Elias assured me as I followed him in the unfamiliar path in the dark of night.  After perhaps 5 minutes of walking I was already out of breath but told myself “Don’t stop again, just keep going…the sooner we arrive the better, and then I can drop this awkward, heavy thing.”  By leaning back I held the 25 kg (over 50 lb.) bag on my stomach and hips, which was a better option than carrying it on the head, like locals or over the shoulder, like Elias was doing.   It was uncomfortable: my lower back was starting to hurt, the bag was beginning to slip through my grip and there was a carpet burn-like sensation on the inside of my elbows.  A challenging 10 minute (~ 1/4 mile) walk, but I eagerly did it because I knew Elisa and her grandchildren would now have something to eat, something to eat for the next few months.  Even though I couldn't clearly see her face because it was dark, there was no disguising the excitement and thankfulness upon receiving the food. We were immediately thanked with a new and strange fruit called coração do boi (heart of a bull, somehow the name seemed fitting for the accomplished task). You see, buying the food was easy; carrying it was not.  I learned about sacrificial love by carrying the 25 kg bag of rice: my momentary inconvenience and discomfort brought nourishment to the hungry.  I couldn't help but to reflect on Jesus’ sacrifice: how much greater was his pain and suffering to bring a much greater gift of eternal life.  

You haven't seen a pothole until you've seen and experienced a Mozambican pothole. This is the main road that leads to/from Beira..believe it or not there have been substantial improvements in road conditions since I was in Beira in February...so potholes like these were far less frequent than before.