“Estás gorda” (you’re fat) he told me after he welcomed me back
home. (Apparently it was obvious that I had eaten well in South Africa). Now in America that would be a clear insult
but not around here.
So why is being called fat not insulting?
“Estás gorda” was more like an observation with a positive
connotation. I visited a friend and with pride she showed me her chunky baby
sister, as if to say “What a good, strong, healthy baby!” When I lived in Venezuela a lady at church
called me “gorda” as a term of endearment.
Living in Mozambique has changed me.
One aspect of change is my perspective of food.
I personally know people who are hungry. Not I
haven’t eaten in three hours hungry-but I
haven’t had food in three days (not by choice) hungry. These people have no body fat so starvation
is not so far away. (Like Carlota in the tangerine blog). And so a few months
ago when I saw TV commercials for Man
versus Food I was so disturbed, wondering how eating enough for
approximately 10 people becomes this virtuous feat. The way they cheered when he entered the
room, you’d think he climbed Mt. Everest or cured cancer. No, he just eats a lot.
"American food" I decided to use the first image that popped up on a search for both American food and Mozambican food.
Here in Mozambique, people eat to live.
Perhaps on rare
occasions they will have something special, out of the ordinary. Like chicken for a birthday party. But in the States people eat whatever they
feel like. Even if you subsist on food stamps, you have far more variety and
selection in food than 90% of Mozambicans I’ve met. On second thought, make that all Mozambicans,
because American grocery stores are substantially bigger (therefore have more
variety) than those in Mozambique.
"Mozambican Food" matapa..looks like its with cassava.
You see- its only being here that I’ve realized I’ve never
been truly hungry. I’ve never been
malnourished or anywhere close to starving. If I choose not to eat, it’s because I’m
fasting. Sometimes I’m naturally hungry,
but I’ve never wondered if I could afford to eat. I might not have known exactly where I’d eat
or what I’d eat…but there’s always rice. There’s no way my Mozambican friends (and even
strangers, I’d be willing to bet) would let me go hungry. I’ve also realized how much I eat for reasons
other than hunger- whether it’s out of habit or pleasure or emotion. I definitely spurge on occasion, eating like
an American: at a restaurant, or buy expensive things (by Mozambican standards)
like cheese or a box of cereal or ice cream.
For many Mozambicans that I know and regularly visit- food
is one of their most valuable resources; which is why eating whatever they
offer me is one of the best ways for me to honor, love and accept them. Just last week as I was visiting Julia and
Sergio they killed a small goat early that morning and so after our Bible Study
I ate a goat leg and xima (like cornmeal).
I actually really enjoyed the meal and felt honored by the gesture. When it comes to eating unusual foods, I can
be paranoid and worry about the unsanitary conditions that the food was
prepared in, or focus on different flavors I don’t like, or humbly and
gratefully receive what has been offered, and thank God that I can eat just
about anything.
I loved reading this Leigh. It's so true, I was actually just thinking about that today, even on the note of fasting. I have a lot to be grateful for and more of a passion to help those in hunger. It's definitely a great reminder and conviction of people inside the circle of America. Reading this I believe if we got out more, outside our four walls, our borders, no doubt the most important things in life come alive, and we would be more grateful and thank God for what we do have. I pray that we as a nation learn to give as richly as we receive.
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